Thursday, September 25, 2008

3 weeks and uncontrollably adorable




I can't believe our little man is 3 weeks old today!! It's just crazy how the time flies....I can't imagine how fast life will be when I finally have to go back to work in December.

We had a pediatrician appointment this week on Tuesday - which was really his 2 week checkup - and he is doing wonderfully. Jake weighed in at 9 lbs 8 oz (for those keeping track that's a whole pound in 14 days) and measured at 20.75 inches. So even though I sometimes feel like nursing may not be going so well, he's obviously getting everything he needs and thriving beautifully.

Here are some updated pictures. He gets this really goofy smile when he starts to fall asleep but I haven't been able to capture it yet....we'll see if I can get it on camera sometime soon.

Enjoy!!


Thursday, September 18, 2008

2 weeks old and changing every day



Jake is two weeks old today! How time is flying....I can't believe it's been that long and I can return to driving status. I had a doctor's appointment yesterday and the c-section wound is healing well and I'm losing lots of weight....all good things :)

This is Jake after falling into a post nursing food coma....hehehe....couldn't you just grab those cheeks?


Jake's umbilical cord remains fell off today. I weeped a slight little bit but then I had to take pictures of his adorable little belly button. He's definitely looking bigger and older every day. Hopefully the feeding stuff continues working itself out so that the sleep schedule gets more regular. Chris took night duty a couple of times earlier this week so I could get 2 nights of 6 hours straight sleeping and that helped a lot in returning to humanhood.






Saturday, September 13, 2008

First week at home comes to a close....





We've had a good week and things are really starting to come together. I was reviewing the pictures on the camera memory card this morning and decided there were a few I just had to share. Here we see some great shots including "What up to my west side", "Bathtime friggin sucks", "I love Daddy time", and "Swinging is so good I pass out every time".

















Jake met Aunt Laura, Magic great grandma, great grandpa Paul, "uncle" Erik and "aunt" Shannon these last few days. I need to be better about taking pictures when new visitors come over, but I'm sure those won't be the last opportunities since these folks will be around again soon, I'm sure!

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Home is getting easier

When we got home on Sunday things were a little rough, but thankfully we've been able to work out a few kinks and things are getting smoother around here. Jake loves his swing and enjoys his nightly talks with dad about things like high definition televisions and how pepperoni is another member of the pork family. Yukon is a doting big brother and is learning the meaning of the word "enough" when it comes to licking Jake's face. I don't want him to feel like he can't do it ever so we're not saying no, just "enough" and he seems to respond pretty well.

I got my staples out on Tuesday which helped restore a bit of movement which is a nice feeling. Chris is doing a fantastic job of making sure I do things I need to do like eat, shower and get at least a couple of sleep stints throughout the day. Today he took me to Babies R Us just to get out for a bit and we ran into Carrie. That woman is everywhere!!!

At the pediatrician appointment on Tuesday we got some tricks and tools for nursing and it's become so much easier, thank heavens. By Monday night my emotional issues coupled with our inability to see eye to eye on this nursing thing left me in a heap of a mess, but we worked through it and all the family memebers are much happier and I'm just thankful nursing is finally working. Jake also measured at 20 inches and weighed 8 lbs 8 oz, so he's thriving wonderfully and gaining appropriately, which despite all the nursing woes was very nice to hear.

I'll try to get some updated pictures posted before the end of the weekend, especially since Jake's jaundice has improved sooooooo much....Chris actually tried to freak me out by saying we brought home a little oompah loompah (SCARY) but when I see the pictures of him now I have to agree he was quite orangy....hahahahaa

Stay tuned for postings soon....

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Welcome Jake Elwood Kaczkowski

Well, on Wednesday 9/3 I made my way to the doctor's office for an appointment which turned out to be my last visit. I was almost 4cm dilated and 80% effaced but my blood pressure was high. I can personally attribute the bp spike to my decision to join Tonya, Therese and Anna in Ann Arbor for lunch that afternoon -- fully forgetting it was the first day of classes at the University and for some dumbass reason we met there for lunch anyway....hahahahah. So, after eating great Indian food and enjoying a nice afternoon - then nearly killing 420 stupid students walking across the street anywhere they wanted while gabbing about got knows what on their cellphones, I went to the doc. Anyway, she decided I should head over to the hospital for some bloodwork to make sure I wasn't developing toxemia or preeclampsia. So I left the office and something told me I should just stop at home and get my bags anyway, which is where I was headed. I was talking to my mom on the phone and the doc beeped in, talk about personal service!! She had spoken with the doc on call at the practice - initially to tell her I was coming over for some tests and they decided since I was only 9 days away from due date, they weren't going to bother with monitoring, they were just going to induce labor so I should stop at home and get my stuff.....its a completely jarring feeling when after weeks and weeks of telling you to not have the kid, they just one day decide hey, we're going to make you have the kid now.

So I rolled up to the house, got my stuff together and ate one last meal knowing I'd be high and dry at the hospital for at least a day, played with the dog a last time before he's not the only baby in my life then made my way to St. Joe's. I was especially not in a hurry cause of course it was Chris' first day of class for the fall semester and he was at the Livonia campus. He knew I was headed there so he was just meeting me after class cause nothing was going to happen before that time anyway.

I checked in and they took me right to my labor and delivery room. What a crazy feeling. Here is where my baby is going to be born. This is the last place I'll be as a mother-to-be and actually be a mommy. They broke my water at 8:15pm and I was 4cm and 90% effaced. They intended to start me on a pitocin drip to accelerate labor, but right as that was supposed to happen 6 other ladies came in ready to deliver and there weren't enough nurses to cover all those deliveries plus monitor my pitocin schedule every 15 minutes. Luckily I was contracting a little on my own so they could just let me sit and hang out. Many people called or got calls so I spent some time on the phones. My parents decided to make their way up here despite my insistance nothing was going to happen even if they just came in the morning, but sometimes there's no telling my mom, she was going to be here come hell, high water or Hurricaine Hannah....hehehehe. They were able to restart the pitocin just after 11pm. I really wanted to try and go through labor as far as possible without an epidural but after a couple of hours it got quite difficult. I finally asked for the meds just after 1am after trying positions and breathing and everything. I would have made out with the antesthesiologist for sure cause he was like an angel from above :) I shouldn't have waited cause the positions helped me to lose more amniotic fluid than I should have and as the night turned into morning and the contractions got stronger and closer together the little man's heartrate was dipping and having some issues. The doctor at the time (around 4am) just said to take me off the pitocin and see where it went. Labor stayed hard - which was good cause it was on my own and the baby's heart rate leveled out so things were OK for a while again.

My parents arrived so we saw them for a while before they went back out to the waiting room. Noreen arrived in case Chris wasn't going to be able to handle the pushing phase at about 7am. I am so happy she was able to make it cause the rest of the morning turned to a sort of chaos. The doctor's changed at 7am and the baby's heart rate started suffering again. The amniotic infusion they tried didn't work out so well and she didn't like what she was seeing on the monitor. This is when talks of c-section started floating around. The nurse seemed to think we could still do it and I hoped she was right cause I did not want the surgery at all. Things went along for a little while with hopes we were not having surgery and I was going to be able to deliver.

Next phase - nurse makes 1 phone call and suddenly 12 people are in my room (nurse and tech types) to unplug everything and wheel me into OR. They said if they plugged in the monitors and the baby's heartrate was back up that we'd wait 15 minutes and if it stayed up we'd go back to the labor and delivery room. No such luck. Next thing I knew they were moving me to the operating table and prepping for a c-section. Getting enough meds was tricky but I don't think I felt too much more than a planned c-section would have, but since I've never had one of those I guess I wouldn't know, right?

Anyway, we welcomed Jake into the world at 10:24 am, weighing in at 8 lbs 10 oz and measuring 19.5 inches long with a crazy head of dark soft hair. He's got big feet and these cute curly ears. Everyone that has met him so far fell in love immediately. I'm working (ok, I'm having the husband work on) a video slideshow to just post up here so you can see the pictures so far. We're expected to go home tomorrow and we're doing pretty well. Chris is even teaching him about cranes and bacon, so he's well rounded :)

Check by in a few to see the pics. Love to all and see you soon!